Who wants to marry to be together for life. She wants to get married to put a wedding dress photo on instagram.
It is a hormonal situation, probably the desire to have a child is dominant. men and women do not matter.
I will not comment on those who use this argument as a threat to self-assurance since I do not put it in the human class.
he told me this was my eight-year relationship. he said when I gave up hope from him and slowly started to quiet down .. I left too.
gender: female
everyone's own life is their choice ... the person who wants to get married obviously does not want to leave, but if there is no marriage at the end, he may not want to continue. According to me, it is in a hurry to get married, for some it is normal, you cannot impose your own life choice on anyone.
As one writer said above, this sentence does not bring people to weddings, husband and wife curiosity, nor the classic patterns you set up in your mind. You see, the relationship is like gum. It will get longer, but it will not get anywhere, you will say that you enjoy the road, not where you will arrive, and yes, you will be right by saying this, but the road is not pleasant either. There is a person you do not want or dare to make a life with. you argue often, you are nervous. You've started to cool down step by step, but you don't want to admit it, either your years have passed together. The ages have come to organize your life, the environment is slightly pushing, but you try not to care. You kind of bluff the other person, you think you can actually portray something that is already gone by provoking him. however, a marriage made in this way will neither bring happiness nor passion nor anything else good. The other party will probably start to think that you have the potential to leave it at any moment. There are other problems already, that point has been reached ...
"Wanting to marry to be together for a lifetime with someone you don't love enough to give up and go away ..."
it doesn't work like that. As you get older, you want to organize your life. many describe this order as marriage. quite understandable. and that can outweigh loving someone. Besides, nobody marries someone whom they don't feel warmth. necessarily has a feeling when getting married. so there is no dislike. but loving does not prevent someone from giving up. I think it is a matter of being able to get away first. then that person settles in your mind as a person who did not want to start a life with you. you're getting cold Think, look, why don't people in their 30s and 40s intend to meet and get married? because you don't have to wait long to see if the person you are with has what you are looking for. If the heads match, if you can get along, it's okay. already at that age, the blind log knows that the times of falling in love will not last long. Why do you think divorce rates are lower in marriages made at a later age? what is desired is simple. but we make it difficult. I don't know why we are doing this.
do not give up immediately. You have been dating for 2 years, you know it, you love it. Is there anything as normal as wanting to get married, how long will the dating period be?
Is there really anyone who still continues to be together with his girlfriend who made such an absurd sentence?
If the other person were smart, he would not make such a word anyway, he would not allow events to come to the point where "he should say this". what stupid relationships
Between his plans and dreams is marriage. therefore he will think he is stalling. He may not want to linger.
now the woman is leaving anyway. Whether he is married or leaving, even if he is not.
marriage became an unnecessary institution.
When the aim is only marriage, that marriage does not make the woman happy after marriage. Sex is involved. money is entering. only marriage is not enough. The woman who cannot be happy also leaves when she marries.